Have you been trying to get serious about writing, but can’t seem to develop a regular writing habit?
Do you find you keep putting off writing in favor of something else — snacking, chatting on Facebook, reorganizing your closets…pretty much anything except sitting your butt in the chair and grinding out the paragraphs?
“I manage to do everything except the actual writing!” one would-be writer emailed me recently. “Can you help?”
Another writer recently related that she quit her job to become a freelance writer about two years ago, and then never wrote a word. Ever. Until her money ran out and she had to go back and get a day job again.
Yet another commented on Facebook:
When writers don’t write
So here’s the thing about being a writer who doesn’t write. And who is looking to the outside world for a way to acquire the burning drive to do so.
I can’t help you with that.
You might tell yourself or your spouse or your writer friends, “Well, I’m procrastinating about writing right now.”
But really, you’re not.
Let me explain what I mean.
The truth about procrastination
The reality is, you are never procrastinating.
I know! It feels like you are. But you’re not.
What all human beings really do, in their every waking moment, is make choices.
Every minute of every day, you are making decisions about what you will do, based on what matters most to you.
You are not procrastinating. You are deciding.
Today, or this month or this year, you may be deciding not to write anything.
Yes, maybe today you really were dying to write but you had to take the kids to soccer. Maybe this week the relatives were in town.
But over the course of a month, a year, a decade, you ultimately make time for the things you want to do.
And you don’t make time for the things you don’t.
Be aware of your choices
Often, we make these choices on how to use our time a bit unconsciously. We become creatures of habit. “Yes, I never miss an episode of [your favorite TV show here].”
If that’s you, then it’s time to bring these choices up to the level of your consciousness and start thinking about how you spend your time. Keep a time-use diary for a few weeks if you need to.
It may help you confront a basic reality of life: We all make time for whatever really matters to us.
It’s been said that you don’t become a writer or aspire to be a writer…you either are a writer, or you aren’t.
You are one of those people who is scribbling song lyrics in the margins of their grocery lists, or lying awake at night composing poems in your head, or pitching editors dozens of article ideas. Or you are someone who doesn’t feel that drive to get words down and put them out in the world.
“I’m dying to become a published author!” you say. But contrary to what the greeting cards tell you, it’s not the thought that counts — it’s the action.
If you’re never making time to write, it’s because deep down, you don’t really want to write.
Or at least, you don’t want to write bad enough to face your demons, overcome your laziness, and sit. down. and. do. it. On a regular basis.
That may be harsh, and tough to confront. But that’s the reality.
Stop putting it off…
Runners get out every day and run. Writers make regular time to write, because it’s impossible to go on living without getting those ideas out of your head. And because we know it’s another muscle that has to be exercised a lot to get working well.
The corollary, I’d say, is if you are a freelance writer who never can find time to market your writing, you don’t really want to do this for a living.
Maybe you want to dabble with your memoir or your fiction or write a personal-journal type blog, but you don’t have the drive to make writing your source of reliable income.
The next time you find yourself wanting to complain that you are putting off writing (or marketing), remember that it’s not procrastination. It’s a deliberate choice.
Stop waiting for the kids to leave home or the move cross-country or to feel better-rested or whatever it is you blame for why you’re not writing now.
Be a writer, not a waiter
There will never be a better time to write. For all you know, you may not have another day of life to live beyond today.
If it matters, you’ll make time to write.
Because you are doing exactly what you really want to do with your life.
How do you fight procrastination? Leave a comment and share your tips.
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We all know the feeling: we pull out our laptops and get comfortable, totally ready to start writing that big paper. Minutes later, we’re off watching YouTube videos, taking pointless Buzzfeed quizzes, or mindlessly scrolling through Instagram. As college students, procrastination is something that we’re all unfortunately familiar with. No matter how much we want to start writing that paper (or studying for that exam, or working on that presentation…) we just can’t bring ourselves to do it.
To help with this never-ending struggle, I did some research and compiled my best tips for combating procrastination. After all, that paper isn’t going to write itself.
Why do we Procrastinate?
There’s no single reason why everyone procrastinates; different studies cite different causes, such as laziness, fear of failure, and lack of incentive. To me, the biggest thing that stands out is using procrastination as a coping mechanism. If we’re feeling anxious about an upcoming paper or assignment, avoiding it temporarily lessens our anxiety. Although it’s ultimately counter-productive, “out of sight, out of mind” seems to be a major rationale for procrastinating.
As we all know though, this technique only works for so long. Eventually, the due date creeps up and we’re forced to bang something out at the last minute. Sadly, we can’t make the paper disappear, or turn our anxiety off, but there are some things we can do to help us stop procrastinating. Here are the 5 things that work best for me!
1) Find a Conducive Environment
As far as writing goes, everyone has a preferred place to do it. While some people like the quiet floors of the library, others swear by sitting in bed and listening to music. Find whatever that place may be for you, and go to it. One of my favorite places to write essays is Argo Tea in Southwest. The atmosphere and relaxing music help me get into the zone, plus I can sip on tea while I work.
2) Set Goals and Rewards
A goal can be anything from writing a page to coming up with a thesis statement and main points. If you have a set guideline in mind, the assignment will feel less daunting and easier to achieve. Just make sure your goal is attainable and purposeful. Rewards are also good incentive to push you towards these goals. You could reward yourself by eating a snack, watching a short video, or even seeing a friend. To get the most benefit, make sure the size of your goals and rewards match up!
3) Take Effective Breaks
Taking a break from writing is okay here and there, as long as you don’t overdo it. Save your breaks for when you’re feeling completely stuck or when you’ve reached a goal you’ve worked hard to achieve. You’ll feel way more satisfied taking a break you’ve actually worked for, rather than feeling guilty that you’re just wasting time.
4) Change of Scenery
It’s easy to feel stuck when you’re sitting in one spot for hours on end. Changing your environment once in a while helps to get your creative juices flowing. This can be as simple as taking a walk or moving to a new floor in the library. If your friends live close by, go visit them for a few minutes! They’ll help you recharge and put you in a positive mindset for when you have to go back to writing.
5) Make an Outline
If you’re really having a hard time starting, making an outline can help you sort your thoughts and get organized. Lay out your main ideas and other evidence in bullet points, or whichever way works best for you. Although you’re technically still avoiding writing the actual essay, outlines can actually be really helpful in the long run. They arrange your thoughts in a cohesive way, and make it easier to stick to your thesis when you’re writing the paper. Overall, having some ideas written down makes the whole essay-writing process less intimidating.
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